Kara Chabot
October 23, 2017 08:06
Took my 4 year old daughter here for the first time on Saturday. She is autistic and we informed the instructor, Curt, of this fact and told him that we would stay with her throughout the class to help her. He seemed receptive of this information and we were excited for the class.
Curt proceeded to discriminate against my daughter the entire class. He lectured her excessively and unnecessarily about crossing a cone barrier into the older kids zone, about looking at his face when he's talking to the kids (something incredibly difficult for most people on the spectrum), and about standing in line when he tells her to. This is toddler parkour, not navy seal training. I understand the need to follow directions for safety reasons, but my daughter has taken plenty of gymnastics and swimming classes that also involved potentially dangerous situations, and none of her instructors have treated her this way.
Curt had my daughter practice jumping separate from the other typically developing children. This was alarming to us. He also invited the other kids to try new sections of the course, and try a flip, but not my daughter. The entire class, he was very enthusiastic about the other children and their accomplishments, but did not show this same enthusiasm for my daughter. We have been deeply disturbed by his complete disregard for my daughters feelings and his obvious prejudice against her.
I talked to the man at the front desk before I left. He assured me that many of the instructors, including Curt, have worked with people of all ages with disabilities at the gym.
I went home and wrote a lengthy email to the gym email provided on the website. After not receiving a response, I called the gym this morning to try and contact the owner or director. The man who answered said the head coach would be in contact with me soon, and laughed when he said he had read my email. I received an email apologizing from the head coach, Brandee. She called me this evening and we discussed the class, she said she had reviewed the class footage and agreed with my concerns about Curt's behavior. She assured me she had talked to Curt and would be interested in any special needs sensitivity training resources I could send her.
Although I felt Brandee was very understanding and remorseful of the situation, I was unsatisfied with her response that she would just "talk to Curt about it." We haven't received any apology or correspondence from Curt, which is tremendously disappointing. I really hope that this review will help anybody with a disability that visits this gym in the future. Please don't let anybody discriminate against your child, or yourself. I'm thoroughly disgusted with how my daughter was treated and I hope this doesn't happen to anyone else.